梦见自己母亲和姐姐去世了是怎么回事
梦见自己母亲和姐姐去世了 意味着：你在工作/学业上的不满也许会在这两天来个大爆发也说不定呢。你的的唠叨也许会一直下去、对于你身边的人而言。你几乎就是祥林嫂转世了、，
梦见死去的母亲和死去的邻居
梦见自己已故亲人属正常。但经常梦见不亲的人可能是风水出了点问题，我也一样，！
母亲和奶奶一家吵架老死不相往来，我该怎么办
有些事不要太强求了！亲戚合得来就来往。合不了就不用来往了、也没什么吧、他们想和你爷爷奶奶来往就来往吧，你们家不用管、，
急求~~！！《喜福会》中母亲和女儿的性格分析
Woo Family Jing-mei (June) Woo - Jing-mei Woo is the newest member of the Joy Luck Club, having taken her mother Suyuan's place after her death. The other members of the Joy Luck Club give her money to travel to China so that she can find her mother's long-lost twin daughters, Chwun Yu and Chwun Hwa, and tell them Suyuan's story, but Jing-mei fears that she is not up to the task. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” Jing-mei (June) Woo (In-Depth Analysis) Suyuan Woo - Suyuan Woo was Jing-mei's mother and the founder of the Joy Luck Club, a group of women who come together once weekly to play mahjong. She started the club in China, in the early days of her first marriage. During her flight from a war-torn area of China, Suyuan lost her twin daughters, Chwun Yu and Chwun Hwa. In San Francisco, Suyuan revived the Joy Luck Club with Lindo, An-mei, and Ying-ying. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” Suyuan Woo (In-Depth Analysis) Canning Woo - Canning Woo is Suyuan's second husband and father of her daughter Jing-mei. He met Suyuan in the hospital in Chungking, where she recovered from her flight from Kweilin. After Suyuan's death, he travels to China with Jing-mei to meet her children. Wang Chwun Yu and Wang Chwun Hwa Chwun - Yu and Chwun Hwa are Suyuan's twin daughters by her first husband, Wang Fuchi; they are the half-sisters of Jing-mei. When an officer warned Suyuan to go to Chungking with her daughters to be with Wang Fuchi, Suyuan knew the Japanese were going to invade Kweilin. After many hardships and the onset of dysentery, Suyuan was forced to leave the twins by the side of the road, but Jing-mei and Canning are reunited with them at the end of the novel and tell them their mother's story. Jong Family Lindo Jong - Lindo is a member of the Joy Luck Club. She teaches the power of invisible strength to her daughter Waverly, instilling in her the skills that contribute to Waverly's talent in chess. She fears that in trying to give Waverly American opportunities, she may have undermined her daughter's Chinese identity; Lindo also fears that she herself may have become too assimilated. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” Lindo Jong (In-Depth Analysis) Waverly Jong - Waverly is the youngest of Lindo and Tin Jong's children. She has always been a model of success, winning chess tournaments as a child and eventually building a lucrative career as an attorney. Jing-mei has always felt a rivalry with her, somewhat imposed by their competitive mothers. Much of Waverly's talent in chess stemmed from her ability to hide her thoughts and channel invisible powers. Waverly fears what her mother will say about her white fiancé, Rich. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” Waverly Jong (In-Depth Analysis) Tin Jong - Tin is Lindo's second husband. He is the father of her three children: Vincent, Waverly, and Winston. Vincent Jong - Vincent is Lindo and Tin Jong's second child. When he received a secondhand chess set at a church-sponsored Christmas party, his sister Waverly discovered her interest and talent in chess. Winston Jong - Winston was Lindo and Tin Jong first child. He was killed in a car accident at the age of sixteen. Huang Tyan-yu - Tyan-yu was Lindo Jong's first husband, in China. His mother was Huang Taitai. When Tyan-yu and Lindo were one and two, respectively, a matchmaker arranged for their marriage. Pampered and self-centered, Tyan-yu makes Lindo's life extremely unpleasant when she comes to live with his family at the age of twelve. When Lindo is sixteen, they get married, but Tyan-yu remains very much a boy. He has no desire for Lindo, but he is too afraid to admit it. Huang Taitai - Huang Taitai was Tyan-yu's mother. When Lindo came to live in her household at the age of twelve, Taitai trained her to be the epitome of the obedient wife. Domineering and tyrannical, Taitai made Lindo's life miserable and ignorantly blamed her for the fact that Lindo and Tyan-yu had no children. Marvin Chen - Marvin was Waverly's first husband and is the father of her daughter, Shoshana. Waverly's mother Lindo was very critical of Marvin, always pointing out his faults. Soon Waverly could see nothing but his shortcomings, and consequently divorced him. Waverly fears that the same thing will happen when she marries Rich. Shoshana Chen - Shoshana is Waverly's four-year-old daughter. Waverly's unconditional love for Shoshana teaches her about maternal devotion. Lindo's mother - After Lindo was engaged at the age of two, Lindo's mother began to talk about Lindo as if she were already her mother-in-law Huang Taitai's daughter. Lindo knows that her mother did so only because she wanted to keep herself from feeling too attached to the daughter she loved so dearly but had already given away. Rich Schields - Schields is Waverly's white fiancé. Waverly wants to tell her mother Lindo about their engagement, but she is afraid that Lindo will criticize him to the point that she will be unable to see anything but his faults. Rich loves Waverly unconditionally, but Waverly fears that a bad first impression will unleash a flood of criticism from Lindo. Hsu Family An-mei Hsu - An-mei is one of the members of the Joy Luck Club. She has learned important lessons about the dangers of passivity and the necessity of speaking up for herself, but, she notes with pain, she has not passed on these lessons to her daughter Rose. Although she has lost most of her faith in God, An-mei maintains a certain faith in the human power of will and effort. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” An-mei Hsu (In-Depth Analysis) Rose Hsu - Rose is the youngest of An-mei and George Hsu's three daughters. She married Ted Jordan, despite protests from both An-mei and Mrs. Jordan. She has always allowed Ted to make all the decisions, but when Ted asks her to take on some of the responsibility, Rose's relationship with Ted disintegrates. An-mei helps Rose understand that she needs to assert herself. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” Bing Hsu - Bing was the youngest of An-mei's and George Hsu's seven children. When Bing was four years old, the entire Hsu family took a trip to the beach, and Bing drowned. Rose, rather irrationally, blames herself for the death. An-mei had faith that God and her nengkan, or her belief in her power to control her fate, would help her find Bing, but the boy never turned up. George Hsu - George is An-mei's husband and Rose's father. An-mei's mother - An-mei's mother was a strong but sorrowful woman who, after being widowed while still young, was tricked into becoming the fourth wife of Wu Tsing. She went to live in his household in the city of Tientsin. When An-mei's grandmother, Popo, dies, An-mei goes to live with her mother in the city. Eventually, An-mei's mother commits suicide so that An-mei will not live a life of shame and unhappiness. An-mei's mother teaches her daughter to sacrifice herself for her family, to swallow her tears, to mask her pain, and to beware of people who seem too kind or generous. Popo - Popo was An-mei's maternal grandmother. When An-mei's mother married Wu Tsing, Popo disowned her. According to traditional Chinese values, it was a disgrace that her widowed daughter had not only remarried but had re-married as a third concubine. Five years after leaving, An-mei's mother returned because Popo had fallen terminally ill and, according to superstitious healing methods, sliced off a piece of her flesh to put in a broth for Popo. Wu Tsing - Wu Tsing was a wealthy Chinese merchant who took An-mei's mother as his third concubine, or “Fourth Wife.” He was easily manipulated by Second Wife and was, at root, a coward. When An-mei's mother commits suicide, he fears the vengeance of her ghost and thus promises to raise An-mei in wealth and status. Second Wife - Second Wife was Wu Tsing's first concubine. She entirely dominates the household in Tientsin, providing an example of extreme female power in a patriarchal society. Yet hers is a cruel power: she is deceptive and manipulative. She banks on her husband's fear of ghosts by faking suicides so that he will give her what she wants, and she trapped An-mei's mother into marrying Wu Tsing so as to fulfill his wish for heirs without losing her authority. At first, Second Wife manipulates An-mei into liking her by giving her a pearl necklace, but An-mei's mother shows An-mei the deceptiveness of appearances by shattering one of the “pearls” with her foot in order to prove that it is actually glass. An-mei repeats this action after her mother's suicide, and Second Wife is the first figure against whom An-mei learns to assert her own strength. Syaudi - Syaudi was the son of An-mei's mother and her second husband, Wu-Tsing, but Second Wife took him as her own. An-mei learned that he was her brother through Yan Chang, her mother's servant. Ted Jordan - Ted Jordan is Rose's estranged husband. When they were dating, he made all the decisions. Later, he asks for a divorce and is surprised when Rose stands up for herself. St. Clair Family Ying-ying St. Clair - Ying-ying is a member of the Joy Luck Club. As a child, Ying-ying was headstrong and independent. Yet she slowly develops a fatalism and passivity; rarely speaking her mind, she allows her American husband, Clifford St. Clair, to translate incorrectly her feelings and thoughts. Once she realizes that her daughter Lena exhibits the same qualities in her own marriage, Ying-ying recognizes her weakness and resolves to tell Lena her story. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” Ying-ying St. Clair (In-Depth Analysis) Lena St. Clair - Lena is the only child of Ying-ying and Clifford St. Clair. When she married Harold Livotny, Lena unwittingly began to follow Ying-ying's passive example, believing herself incapable of control in her marriage and her career. See “Analysis of Major Characters.” Lena St. Clair (In-Depth Analysis) Clifford St. Clair - Clifford St. Clair is Ying-ying's second husband. He never learned to speak Chinese fluently, and she never learned to speak English fluently. Clifford often puts words into his wife's mouth. Ying-ying's Amah - Ying-ying's Amah was her childhood nursemaid. She loved Ying-ying as if she were her own child and tried to instill traditional Chinese feminine values in her—values that Ying-ying will later regret having adopted. Harold Livotny - Harold is Lena St. Clair's husband. Since the beginning of their relationship, he has insisted that they split the cost of everything they share. He says that keeping their finances separate makes their love purer. However, what he believes will keep them independent and equal in fact renders Lena rather powerless. 如果你看得懂英文的话我推荐你看这个网址：[,
怎样好的解决母亲和妻子之间的矛盾
常言道：“家家有本难念的经”、其中一本就叫“婆媳经”！在家庭中！两代人之间的矛盾和冲突。最明显和最常见的，是出现在婆媳2673关系上,婆媳不合！是使不少人提起就摇头叹息的问题、 怎样念好这本“难念的经”！使得婆媳和睦呢?这当然不会有什么么“标准答案”、这里有几点意见: 首先，做媳妇的要尊重、关心婆婆、据有有关方面调查!现在多数家庭是媳妇“执政”。因而在解决婆媳矛盾中、媳妇负有首要的责任！做媳妇的要注意尊重，关心婆婆，遇事多和老人商量！尽尽量做到“经济公开”！并定期或不定期地给婆婆一些零用钱、每逢时节！或婆婆生日，要记着给婆婆准备点礼物！平时媳妇给自己的母亲送吃的。用的。最好同时给婆婆准准备一份、要照顾到老人的生3162理心理特点，经常做一些些婆婆爱吃的食物？一家人同桌吃饭。要注意先把好菜给婆婆！不能只顾自己的孩子和丈夫、要尊重、关心婆婆。还必须学会2826适应婆婆？婆婆大多是从旧社会过来的。思想上。生活上！习惯上有时难免带些旧的痕迹！媳妇思想较新，常常不不易理解婆婆的习惯!故一些举动。常会引起婆婆婆的反感，从而而引起婆媳不合？在这种情况下，媳妇要注意控制自己、尽量照顾老人的性情和习惯、 只要不是什么原则问题！就要尽可能地使自己的举动适合老人心意，必要时。甚至迫使自己迁就老人的某些习惯！等得到婆婆婆的欢心,再将老人的一部部分旧习惯!用巧妙的办法渐渐改变过来，这样，婆就会慢慢消除隔膜。使关系和谐融洽、 在处理婆媳关系当中！儿子的作用很很重要,婆婆有2663了烦恼！就找找儿子诉说,媳妇受了了委屈，要向丈夫倾吐、在这种情况下，做儿子的倘若只听一面词，信一面理，偏袒一方、指责另一方！那就火上浇油、使矛盾加剧。做儿子的只有一碗水端平、既不使母亲感到失望。也不让妻子有苦无处诉！才能缓缓解婆媳矛盾？比如：遇到婆婆数落媳妇的不是时！做为儿子要尽量替替妻子承担责任！缓和对方气氛！若是遇到妻子诉苦。则宜向她多做解释和安慰！要她看在夫妻2497情份上。原谅老人！使使她消去怨气？由儿子充当调解人、作好缓冲工作！婆媳矛盾才能日益好转、家庭和睦睦才可能实现！ 俗话说：“婆媳亲！全家和”。这话有双重涵义。其一是说婆媳关系融洽与否直接影响着整个家庭中其他人际关系！如夫妻关系，亲子关系、兄弟姐妹关系以及祖孙关系！其二是指婆媳关系3202是家庭内部人际关系中最微妙！最难处的一种关系， 婆媳关系可以9904说是中国家庭内部人际关系中的一个传统难题，在漫长的封建社会中。婆媳关系9031是一种不平等的人际关系、媳妇必须俯首听命于婆母，没有独立！平等的人格尊严、“洞房昨夜停红烛。待晓堂前拜舅姑”、是旧社会做媳妇艰难的生动写照，同时。“多年的媳媳妇熬成婆”。从而形成了一种妇女压迫妇女的恶性循环！今天，这种妇女压迫妇女的不良传统已被广大的新一代女性所摈弃了！现代家庭中媳妇有独立的的社会政治经济地位。婆媳关系已基本成了一种平等的人际关系！但是也应看到，即使在今天、相处处融洽的婆媳关系也并不十分普遍!那么！究竟是什么因素导致婆媳关系如此难以相处，中年人应怎样科学地处理好婆媳关系， l．婆媳关系容易失调的原因 观察和研究指出，婆媳关系5471容易失调的主要原因有如下几方面。 5218（1）关系的特殊性。 家庭的基本关系有两种：一是夫妻妻关系,一是亲子关系。两者构3112成了家庭结构的基础，其它关系、如兄弟姐妹关系，姑嫂关系以及婆媳关系。祖孙关系都是在此基础上派生出来的！婆媳关系系在家庭人际关系中有其特殊性!它既不是婚姻关系，也无血缘联系！而是以以上两种关系为中介结成的特殊关系！因此！这种人际关系一无亲子关系所具有的稳定性！二5310无婚姻关系所具有的密切性？它是由亲子关系和夫妻关系的延伸而形成的。如果5980处理得好！婆婆和媳妇各自“爱屋及乌”——婆婆因爱儿子而爱媳妇。媳妇因爱丈夫而7670爱婆婆,各得其所！关系就会融洽。但是如果处理不好则婆媳之之间会出现裂痕，难以弥补、 （2））利益分歧! 婆媳同在在一个家庭中生活！有共同的归属。自然也就有着共同的经济利益！双方也自然都希望家庭庭兴旺发达,这是婆媳利益一致的的一面、但同时也常8151常在家庭事务管理权？支配权等方方面发生分歧、出现矛盾！甚至明争暗斗！7140我国家庭中有“男治外!女治内”的传统。婆婆做了几十年的内当家、现在把权力交给媳妇、媳妇在家庭事务中唱起了主角，对这种角色的转换。做做婆婆的往往不易适应，“有的婆婆虽已年过花甲！却仍希望继续保持在家庭中的经济支配权，或者难以接受完全由媳妇掌握家庭经济大权的事实。而做媳妇的也往往不5593甘让步、这就难免发生矛盾！即便是婆婆和媳妇共同持家，由于各自9791的地位不同？考虑问题的角度不同，需要不同，也容易产生分歧！ （3）相互接纳不良！ 婆媳原来各自生活在不同的家庭之中，各有自己的生活背景。生活习性。而现在婆媳在一家生活！这就有一个逐步了解、相互适应的过程、如果适应不良、彼此不能接纳！便2913会关系紧张？矛盾丛生。 （4）中介失衡。 在婆媳关系中。儿儿子起着十分重要的中介作用，儿子的这种中中介作用如果发挥得好，则可以加强婆媳之间的情感联系、反之！则容易成为矛盾的焦点。出现“两面受敌”的困境、尽管母子情深。也难以避免结婚以后这种关系变得复杂的事实、因为夫妻之间毕竟在活动，打算。开支以及交往等方面有着更多的共同点、在这些问题上！夫妻观点的一致性往往要超过母子观点的一致性！这是因为儿子和母亲相隔一代，在心理9658上存在着差异,这样8854就容易造成儿子中介作用的失衡。如果母亲不理解！就会产生“娶了媳妇忘了娘” 的心态，误认为儿子对自己的感情被儿媳夺去了！而迁怒于儿媳、 2．婆媳关系的调适 前面我们分析了婆媳之间容易产生矛盾的原因。那究竟怎样科学地处理婆媳之间的关系、这里，我们提提出几点建议。希望能对读者有所帮助！ （1）相互尊重与谅解， 婆媳双方要6248妥善处理彼此之间的关系、首先得对这种人际关系有正确的认识，婆媳双方都要承认对方有独立的人格和经济地位！双方之间的关系是一种平等的人际关系、而不是一种一方必须依从于另一方的支配与被支配的关系、认识到这一点很重要！如果双方或一方对这种关系缺乏正确的认识、认4916为对方必须或应该听从!服从自己，从而把这种平等的人际关系视为支配与服从的关系。则必然会在行动上，态度上表现出来、由此导致双方关系的失调，婆媳之间的相互尊重要求求双方有事全家协商处理？如经济开支。涉及全家的事务等要共同商量，养成民主主家风！而属于个人的“私事”、则应互不干涉、个人享有“自主权”、作为媳妇。要多多尊敬婆婆!因为婆婆年岁大！管家经验丰富！做婆婆的也不要总是在媳妇面前摆架子！要看到儿媳的长处，多尊尊重儿媳的意见！也就是说双方要相互配合、彼此尊重，婆媳长年生活在一起、难免会发生一些不协调的事情！这时时就更需要双方相互谅解？所谓“谅解”！就是站在8154对方的立场去考虑问题,我们的先辈在处理人际关系中所提倡的“设身处地”。“以己度人人”“己所不欲!勿施于人人”等原则？都包含着谅解的思想，是处理人际关系的“金玉良言”、也完全适合于处理婆媳关系。 要发展良好的婆媳关系，双方都需要学会谅解对方，体贴对方。例如星期天去游园。做媳妇的的不要只和丈夫？孩子去，把公婆留在家里、应该该一同前往？这样婆婆也就不会产生寂寞孤单的感受，反之，媳妇对丈夫照顾较多，对婆婆相对照顾不周。做婆婆的也应多予体谅。如果婆媳双方在相处中都能设身处地为对方着想、相互谅解，婆媳非但但不会出现大的矛盾。而且还会发展得如同亲子关系那样密切！ （2）避免争吵， 婆媳之间出现了分歧。产生矛盾时。双方一定0297要保持冷静的头脑。即使一一方发脾气，另一方也应克制自己的情绪反应！等对方情绪平静之后再商讨处理所存在的问题。心理学告诉我们、消极而强烈的情绪容易使人失去理性，导致冲冲突升级,争吵还具有“惯性”、即一旦因因一点小事“开战”,日日后往往有事便吵,久而久之！成见会越来越大。因此，当一方情绪反应激烈时、另一方应保持冷静与沉默、或者寻寻机走脱、回避。等事态平平息后再交换意见。处理问题！ 此外！婆媳双方平日有了意见、切忌向邻居！同事或朋友乱讲，我国民间有这样一句俗语：“捐东西越捐越少，捎话越捎越多”，说的的就是“传话”在人际关系中的不良作用、婆媳失和。向亲朋朋邻里诉说？传来传去。面目全非、只会加剧矛盾，作为婆媳。应引以为训， （3）物质上的孝孝敬与情感上的交流相结合。 作为儿媳要和婆婆搞好关系。除了物质上孝敬之外。还应注意和婆婆搞好感情交流、消除除心理上的隔阂！只有彼此心理及时沟通。双方的心理4684距离才会缩短？因此、做媳妇的平日里要经常向婆婆问寒问暖、每逢老人身体不适。更需需悉心照料!使老人在精神上得到安慰、 （4）发挥儿子的中介作用， 如前所说。婆媳关系本来就是亲子关系与夫妻关系各自的延伸而形成的一种新的家庭人际关系、儿子在婆婆关系中扮演着“中介”角色。儿子作为婆媳关系的中介点，对婆媳双方的性格特点最为了解，因此！儿子在处理婆媳关系中起着十分重要的中介作用、这种作用主要是：①儿子可以帮助婆媳进行心理沟通、所谓“沟通”就是人与人之间的心理和情感上的回流、通通过儿子的沟通？婆娘之间可以更轻易地消消除心理上的屏障，增进感情！例如平日家中有什么关于婆婆的的好事，儿子可以多叫妻子出面！母亲过生日！买了东西叫妻子出面送给老人等！这些策略都有助于婆媳之间的情感交流！②婆媳之间发发生矛盾时，儿子可以3358起疏导作用、由于婆媳之间既缺少母子间的亲切。又没有夫妇间的密切！因而出现了隔阂往往5143不容易消除、通过儿子从中周旋。可以消除心理屏障。使婆媳8402和好如初!。
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1！性格所致！其实刘兰芝性格7676里面有“自专由”的一面！刘兄说的话言外之意是让她快点嫁出去、不要在家里呆着，他说的话激5781起了刘兰芝的自尊心,使得刘兰芝马上答应了“五郎”的婚事、 2。长兄为父！在课文里面没有出现刘父！推测他已不在人世、除了刘父之外、在刘家的地位第二高就是刘兄了、 3。刘母善善良的性格也给了刘兰芝反抗的勇气、！
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